Caning and Spanking Stories copyright 1994-2001 by OldTom, all rights reserved.
Posted with Kessily's permission. She says this isn't a real story. It just looks like all our email. But that I can post it if'n I wanna.
Kessily got spanked. One story developed into another story, which developed into another story. They corresponded, and she got spanked. He was not present for her spanking; he merely orchestrated it.
Their story began as a simple Or Else...
She was so predictable.
She responded to his story, and that made it easy for him. The story had been about granting "no quarter" - did that not stand as fair warning?
He enquired as to whether *her* bed was made. She bratted the question back and forth, every non-answer tightening his net. He freshened the bait.
He asked her if *she* would care to be subject to an Or Else if she did not make her bed that day. Thirty rounds of questioning later, she still did not know what the Or Else was. When directly asked what it was, he had replied, "Sufficient."
He again asked her if she would care to be subject to an Or Else. Yes, she accepted; yes, she would accept the consequence. She no doubt had a sure winner; she could make her bed any time she wanted, and in the meantime this was fun.
Ten minutes from the deadline, she announced her bed was made. She was clearly dying to know what consequence she had risked. He simply asked her whether or not she would care to be subject to an Or Else the next day.
She was so predictable.
She explained that curiosity would eventually overcome her, and she would fail just to find out what the Or Else was; she could not help it. It was all his fault.
He congratulated her on the attempt, and offered the alternative. If she made her bed the next four days, he explained, he would tell her on the fifth day, what the Or Else had been. Meanwhile, she would be subject to double the original Or Else. Thus she could freely choose to satisfy her curiosity... at a cost.
Her bed remained made, and thus he explained himself in a story, as was his custom. The Or Else would have been to write out his sentence longhand thirty times, mailing the result to his P.O. box. He would know from the postmark, how quickly she had complied:
I made my choice,
I'll do my time;
With whining voice,
Write words that rhyme.The game was easy, painless. It was sooooo fun to beat him at his own game. Besides, making her bed had been good for her. She was predictable... but so was he. He invited her to play his next game. It too would be good for her... but perhaps not so fun.
He portrayed himself as arrogant, manipulative; he called her predictable. He goaded her, knowing her to be helpless before her own curiosity. He knew her need; he knew she would play.
And when she *did* choose to play, in spite of his cynical warning, she would know herself controlled, vulnerable, helpless before her own curiosity. That would excite her, challenge her... yes, she would play.
She was so predictable.
She sat there screaming for a while, and then agreed to play. He thought it best to show the correspondence in raw form, allowing the story its natural unfolding.
From: Old Tom, Sat, 27 Jun 1998
Of the various naughty things you listed, do any of them represent ongoing bad habits that you wish to change? And if so, do you wish Old Tom's assistance in changing?
Also. Do you have any particular implement available, for which "six of the best" represents a serious, memorable, but survivable, event, assuming the six to be delivered by your husband, for real?
From: Kessily, Sun, 28 Jun 1998
um 6 of the best uh well we have a big paddle kinda thick about 3/4 inch thick. it hurts a lot when its swung hard. or theres a hairbrush we use sometimes, or switches from the backyard. and yes they are bad habits and should be corrected :) love kessily :PPPPPPPP
From: Old Tom, Mon, 29 Jun 1998
What I'm looking for is something where the difference between, say, 5 strokes and 6, would be substantial. In other words, a situation wherein you would *not* care to be awarded an extra stroke for breaking position. I generally use strokes of a belt as my example... each stroke makes a difference, and you can keep on going with penalty strokes without things getting too numb and thus less beneficial.
What do you suppose best fits the requirements, that your husband would use?
and yes they are bad habits and should be corrected :) love kessily :PPPPPPPP
Okay. Here's your starting point. If you wish *my* help in changing ongoing habits, you must specifically request my help, naming the behavior that YOU desire to change. (Give as much information as you can about what it is that needs to change, and why.)
You must also give me permission to impose consequences of my choosing, subject to your right of discussion and safeword. Your husband must also agree with you giving me such permission for all the above - and needs to understand that if the consequence includes a spanking, it will be he who delivers it, according to my specifications. And he too has the right of discussion and safeword.
If you have any questions about this, be sure to ask! Misunderstandings can be painful.
From: Kessily, Mon, 29 Jun 1998
well he has a belt but its really loud and it doesnt hurt too much i dont think but i dont know hes never hit me real hard maybe i will have him try it tonite.
If you wish *my* help in changing ongoing habits, you must specifically request my help, naming the behavior that YOU desire to change.
mostly i need to learn to control my temper. sometimes i lose control completly. i break things or hit things. i tend to go through keyboards a lot. thats the worst thing can we just stay with that and the bed making thing for awhile? I would like your help in changing this bad habit of getting so angry all the time. of slamming my keyboard or mouse down whenever aol annoys me, please?
You must also give me permission to impose consequences of my choosing, subject to your right of discussion and safeword. Your husband must also agree with you giving me such permission for all the above - and needs to understand that if the consequence includes a spanking, it will be he who delivers it, according to my specifications. And he too has the right of discussion and safeword.
I do and he does too i already talked to him about it.
kessily
From: Old Tom, Mon, 29 Jun 1998
Very well. Let's get started relatively gently...
well he has a belt but its really loud and it doesnt hurt too much i dont think but i dont know hes never hit me real hard maybe i will have him try it tonite.
So noise is an issue? Okay.
mostly i need to learn to control my temper.
Fair enough. You know the old joke about psychologists and light bulbs, right? (How many psychologists does it take to change a light bulb? Only one, but the light bulb has to want to change.)
i break things or hit things. i tend to go through keyboards a lot. thats the worst thing can we just stay with that and the bed making thing for awhile? I would like your help in changing this bad habit of getting so angry all the time. of slamming my keyboard or mouse down whenever aol annoys me, please?
Okay. Let's begin by getting a handle on things. For the next two weeks I would like you to make a journal. Write down, on paper, every incident of anger/temper/losing control, each day. You are to write things down every day.
If you miss a day for some reason (sick, for example), just make it up as soon as you can. If you missed Thursday, for example, write down everything about Thursday as soon as you can... and continue with Friday, and so on. Don't go skipping days.
I would think the journal will look pretty depressing at first. Of course it will... if there were not a problem we would not be having this discussion.
And be fair to yourself... also write down any *successes* in this area. My hope is that over the couple of weeks, by becoming more conscious of your behavior, you will begin to change it for the better, and the journal will prove this in concrete fashion.
Also. There needs to be a way for *me* to get a handle on how you are doing, in concrete fashion. So what I propose is this. Score yourself on a scale of 1 to 10. 1 is horrible, and 10 is the best that you could expect of yourself that day. Note that 10 is NOT absolute perfection. It is simply the meeting of your full potential... whatever you judge your full potential to be that particular day.
Please report to me your 1-to-10 score each day. You make up your own score as a measure of how *you* feel you are doing in this area. Since you do wish to improve yourself, I'm sure you'll give the self-evaluation your best effort.
Habits do not generally change overnight. I'm sure you understand this! Thus we'll use the next couple of weeks to get a good view of the situation, and thus know how to best proceed from there.
Are there any persons who have been adversely affected by your temper, as an ongoing habit? That is, are there those who are being wrongly treated by your behavior?
Also. Report to me whether, as of this moment, you made your bed today. And then continue to report each day whether or not you made your bed that day.
From: Kessily, Mon, 29 Jun 1998
Are there any persons who have been adversely affected by your temper, as an ongoing habit? That is, are there those who are being wrongly treated by your behavior?
well my husband is usually because i take it out on him most times when im mad. and he lets me usually. most of the time he just says i have a right to be mad and i usually do but its the way i react. i just get so frustrated.
yes i made my bed today :) um are we back to regualar or elses now or still at double if i dont?
From: Old Tom, Tue, 30 Jun 1998
Thank you, Kess. Please start your journal, beginning with today, and your scale-of-10 scores. Let's get a handle on how you react!
From: Kessily, Mon, 29 Jun 1998
um are you gonna see my journal or am i just gonna give you a synopsis of it? and do you want to know what my score for today was? i give myself a 6 for today.
From: Old Tom, Tue, 30 Jun 1998
Hi Kess,
yes i made my bed today :) um are we back to regualar or elses now or still at double if i dont?
Let's just keep it with the regular Or Else. For what time period do you wish to be subject to the Or Else? The month of July, perhaps?
From: Old Tom, Tue, 30 Jun 1998
Hi Kess,
um are you gonna see my journal or am i just gonna give you a synopsis of it?
I'm not going to see your journal - that way you can be free to write whatever you want. It's for yourself.
I *would* like to have you report any *successes* in this area though.
and do you want to know what my score for today was? i give myself a 6 for today.
Okay, a 6 for Monday. Please do keep track of the the ongoing series of scores.
From: Kessily, Tue, 30 Jun 1998
Frustrated, meaning you are frustrated with your behavior? Or you behave this way out of frustration?
i behave this way out of frustration.
For what time period do you wish to be subject to the Or Else?
yes the month of july sounds good.
From: Kessily, Tue, 30 Jun 1998
And what we are addressing is *not* the frustration itself, but how you behave when you are frustrated. And you *do* wish to change how you react to frustration. Correct?
well its like this i cant afford any more keyboards cause i got pissed about aol OR something else and slammed it againt the desk. i dont wanna step on any more glass cause i threw one at the wall when someone pissed me off. you know?
From: Old Tom, Tue, 30 Jun 1998
Okay. So you are now accountable for your own behavior, regardless of what the provocation happened to be. It might seem unfair for you to get busted when it's not your fault. But you are hereby taking responsibility for your own behavior.
From: Kessily, Tue, 30 Jun 1998
The strap will work fine for 6 of the best OUCH :( so its your choice.
From: Kessily, Wed, 1 Jul 1998
uh yesterday? it went good um i gave myself a 9 a small fight but i kept me temper and didnt react. yeah yesterday was good.:)
um today hasnt been so good. but i have made my bed already in addition to doing the laundry and shopping, dishes, mailing out some stuff, filling the car with gas, sweeping all the floors and some other general type stuff. love kess
i think maybe only a 5 i really lost my temper.
From: Kessily, Fri, 3 Jul 1998
i did my twelve minutes corner time as i was told. i didn't do it today because i've been so busy and had to wait until i was alone so noone would walk in one me. im doing fine hope your having fun whatever your doing :) love kess
From: Old Tom, Sat, 4 Jul 1998
Hi Kessily,
How are things going with you? Bed getting made daily and all that? Have you at least managed no broken keyboards, glass, etc? Are you putting *everything* down in your journal?
And then here's the next question. Is there a time late next week, preferably the first day or two past full moon, where hard strokes of the belt can be administered without noise being an issue? Can you schedule such a time with Johnny so you both have it available, and have private time to yourselves?
Assuming we're all up to date this coming Monday 7/6, I'll explain the next step so that you can be ready for the full moon. By up to date I mean your journal is up to date, and you've reported your scores to me (7 day's worth, if I correctly remember the start date).
From: Kessily, Sat, 4 Jul 1998
well ive only done 5 days in the journal i started on monday and i havent written todays yet. my scores are going well. 6 9 5 10 10 so far but today will prolly be pretty good also. Yes we can find time for 2 hard strokes um did i do something wrong?
From: Kessily, Mon, 6 Jul 1998
well my scores have been good 9s and 10s since i last spoke to you. except today i gave myself a 7.
yes sir all caught up love kess
From: Kessily, Tue, 7 Jul 1998
things are ok out here :)ive been good well... hehe not really but i have made my bed and i havent been getting angry . :) love kess
From: Old Tom, Wed, 8 Jul 1998
Hi Kessily,
Let me explain what I had in mind for the "self evaluation" scores. You'll note that since *you* are doing the scoring, there should be no question of the fairness/reasonableness of the scores. It's a measure of how *you* feel you are doing in this area.
Just to be sure... are you clear that scoring a "10" does not require perfection? It simply requires that you meet your full potential that particular day. Which is what you want, right?
You *have* made a vast improvement in handling your angry outbursts, it would appear. So much so that I've been debating all this week, whether to move on to the next step, or not. The other reason is that it cannot be *me* implementing the next step. Thus it might well be less effective than if some third party (meaning me) were to do the "implementing".
But... the fact is that various other people have found this next step to be completely effective. So... let's give it our best shot, shall we?
Your scores through last Monday (the 6th) are 6,9,5,10,10,9,10,7. Thus you have fallen short of your potential by a count of 4,1,5,0,0,1,0,3. Do you see how I did the calculation? I subtracted from 10.
Now, then. You are going to literally pay for your shortcomings. I'll leave the choice of implement up to Johnny. But let's assume it is a belt... that's what I used the first time I did this particular procedure.
Picture standing, bent over the back of a chair, holding on to the seat. (Picture the story Reunion.) You will receive a set of four strokes, and then a set of one, a set of five, a set of one, and so on.
This not a protracted spanking. That is, each individual stroke is intended to hurt, to punish. Two strokes, as compared to three strokes, *does* make a difference.
To continue. You must hold still for each set. (The first is a set of four, in payment for that last Monday of June.) You may break position without penalty *between* sets, but not *during* a set. If you break position during a set, Johnny is to complete the set, but then do the same set over again, with one penalty stroke added. (I'm betting you'll hold still the second time.)
I would guess you might be reading about this procedure with something of a sense of shock. But consider. Now you have some rather urgent motivation. Now, on a daily basis, you have some strong motivation to earn a score of ten, *every single day*.
If you're serious about controlling the habit, I would suggest you remain accountable to this procedure through the rest of this month. You would then "pay up" no more often than once a week.
My intent is that every stroke feel like real punishment. You *will* hold position and just take it. There should be no question of fairness; you know what is coming and why. Done correctly, Kess, this will hurt like hell. It's supposed to. This isn't just playing around; this is a manner of changing a grown woman's way of thinking.
Kessily, I hope that your bouts of "losing it" are cured as of today. You now know the seriousness of what's coming; you will likely have little desire to add to it. It would be far easier to not "lose it", would it not?
And incidentally. If it should turn out that "losing it" *is* cured as of today, that stands as proof that for you, a serious spanking works. Which means that the best thing I could possibly do for you, is require that Johnny follow through.
It might be somewhat comforting to know that others have survived the "scale of ten" game... and have pretty much scored perfect 10's from the moment they got clued in.
Now, then. I've never met Johnny, and you and I have never played in person. Thus I invite further discussion... is there anything here that is *too* upsetting? Anything about this we should continue talking about?
Old Tom
From: Kessily, Wed, 8 Jul 1998
um i have to do these all at once? so um thats like 14 all together that is not too bad i guess but it will hurt alot. and i can take breaks between sets? ok i am forwarding this to johnny. i think we should do it tonite because we both have the night off. love kess
From: Old Tom, Wed, 8 Jul 1998
Hi Kess,
um i have to do these all at once?
Divided into sets, yes. The whole procedure, with whining, should only require half an hour or so.
Hmmm... I forgot to mention. Since I won't be present, I'd best spell it out. The strokes should be all on the bottom; the bottom should be bare. Since it's your husband doing the honors, it would be ideal if he were completely clothed and you completely nude.
It might also be good if he went over the journal with you, so it's clear to him that a full dosage is best.
so um thats like 14 all together
Add in yesterday's score and today's score. It's fourteen all together, plus anything from today or yesterday, plus any penalties for breaking position.
that is not too bad i guess but it will hurt alot.
The intent is that it hurt a LOT. It should be very difficult to get through.
and i can take breaks between sets? ok
Yes. My usual procedure would be for you to take position and then, when you're ready, ask for the next set. Take as long as you need (limited to a few minutes) between breaks.
i am forwarding this to johnny. i think we should do it tonite because we both have the night off.
I was intending to await the full moon... but I can understand your wanting to get it over with, and take advantage of both being together! Would you mind forwarding this clarification to him as well?
Remember, too, that (unless you object) you remain subject to this procedure for the rest of the month. By tomorrow you should have renewed determination to score nothing but 10's for the rest of the month.
Old Tom
From: Kessily, Thu, 9 Jul 1998
jojo talks WAY to much. shouldnt she be spanked for that sheesh. yess i had 15 strokes and i didnt get out of position during the sets. i was lucky some of the sets were of 1 though. i have one tiny little bruise on my but but thats all. it did hurt a lot at the time but johnny rubbed a bit between sets.
and yes i hope it will help curb my outbursts.
From: Kessily, Thu, 9 Jul 1998
Is each stroke painful enough that there really is a difference between earning an 8, versus earning a 9, for the day? The idea, of course, is that you won't just give up in the heat of the moment and make it worse. That you'll quit while still scoring a 7, rather than letting loose and scoring a 3. Because if you do, your butt's gonna pay.
yes each one was quite painful ive never had any experiance with a strap really except one smack or two so this was QUITE hard and i think he was swinging as hard as he could ouchie :( love kess
From: Kessily, Thu, 9 Jul 1998
I don't suppose you've pointed out to Johnny that he's perfectly free to expand upon the concept? It's not like the belt's going to wear out or anything.
HELL NO i have NOT lol
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